Loyalty: Gloria Steinem
Monday, February 17, 2014 at 4:44PM There are few things I pull out more often lately than this quote, both for myself and my peers. I don't know that I would have found it had I not been unemployed in May, when this story ran in New York Magazine, since no one in the event lineup is anyone I tend to follow (excepting, of course, Amy Poehler). But I'm glad I did, and entirely for the Gloria Steinem quote in the final paragraph:
“In my generation, it was difficult to know that you could take control of your own life,” she said. “You thought your husband and children were supposed to dictate your life. Now I see young women who feel they have to be a total success by 30, which is very different. And both things are equally wrong.”
She wasn't talking about writing, at least not exactly. But she was talking about writing, and about how a particular subset of women in my generation--well educated, high-achieving, either middle class now or from that sphere in childhood, and tending towards social justice, or at least socially postive, professions--tends to think about ambition. I personally find it simultaneously an excellent reality check and effective motivator.
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I really love this. I once heard her speak in person; what a gracious and beautiful person. Only late in life did she face her fear of public speaking!
Funny, I too was thinking (and writing) about ambition recently! If you have time and want to, here's my posting: http://www.tikkun.org/tikkundaily/2014/01/29/glory-fame-and-ambition-the-custer-model/